Erich Fromm’s bold understanding and direction for humanity regarding love is a precious treasure and easily accessible for anyone. Love is something we all struggle with it, and “without love, humanity could not exist for a day!”. Yet love is something that very few learn the theory and practice of. If you’re going to take a class on love, after Christ the greatest symbol of love, go to Erich Fromm.

“Envy, jealousy, ambition, any kind of greed are passions; live is an action, the practice of a human power, which can be practiced only in freedom and never as a result of a compulsion. Love is an activity, not a passive affect; it is a standing in, not falling for. In the most general way, the active character of love can be described by stating that love is primality giving, not receiving….The most important sphere of giving, however, is not that of material things, but lies in the specifically human realm. What does one give to another? He gives of himself, of the most precious he has, he gives of his life. This does not necessarily mean that he sacrifices his life for the other—but that he gives him of that which is alive in him; he gives him of his joy, of his interest, of his understanding, of his knowledge, of his humor, of his sadness—of all expressions and manifestations of that which is alive in him. In this giving of his life, he enriches the other person, he enhances the other’s sense of aliveness by enhancing his own sense of aliveness. He does not give in order to receive; giving is in itself exquisite joy. But in giving he cannot help bringing something to life in the other person, and this which is brought to life reflects back to him; in truly giving, he cannot help receiving that which is given back to him. Giving implies to make the other person a giver also and they both share in the joy of what they have brought to life. In the act of giving, something is born, and both persons involved are grateful for the life that is born for both of them. Specifically with regard to love this means; love is a power which produces love; impotence is the inability to produce love”. ♥️